Author: Maria Semple
Publisher: Little Brown/Hachette
Website: www.mariasemple.com
ISBN #: 978-0-316-03116-5
Type: Fiction
Pages: 289 (Hardback)
Purchase: $16.49 Amazon.Com(HERE)
The Story
Violet Parry is not Anna Karenina. Witty, affectionate, and fearsomely resourceful when she wants to be, she’s a modern woman who has traded a great job for a picture-perfect Los Angeles life with her rock-and-roll-manager husband, David, and their darling daughter. She can speak French, quote Sondheim and whip up dinner from the vegetables in her garden. She has everything under control—except her own happiness. Driving the hills of Los Angeles, her sense of isolation grows with every curve. She has a chance encounter with Teddy Reyes, a roguish small-time bass player with a highly-evolved sexuality. He shows an interest. That’s all it takes. Heedless of consequences, Violet embarks upon her monomaniacal journey towards destruction.
David’s sister Sally, in great shape but pushing forty, is on a mission of her own to attain exactly that status and security which Violet is so quick to abandon. Nothing can stop her—as is discovered by the unfortunate bystanders in her path, and by Jeremy, the sportswriter-savant she’s desperate to marry before he achieves the television celebrity she knows is his destiny.
Consumed with recklessness, Violet and Sally overlook the possibility that David and Jeremy may deal some surprises of their own.
(Excerpt is from www.MariaSemple.com)
The Review
Of late, many of the books I’ve read have been taking me considerable time to get through. Personally, I thought that perhaps it had something to do with me and my reading schedule. What This One is Mine showed me is that it wasn’t me that was slowing the reading process, rather it was the books that I’ve been choosing. All it takes it just that one book that grabs me, and I’m off! This book certainly did that. I started the read late Saturday afternoon and finished it within 24-hours. My reading schedule was unchanged, yet my fervor wasn’t. This book grabbed my attention and refused to let me go until I knew what would happen to Violet and David as well as Sally, David’s sister. Although I’m nothing like any of these characters, I totally “got” them and their fears, motivations, and passions became very real to me.
This book is set in Los Angeles, one that I’ve witnessed and understand. It is an American sub-culture all of its own. The money and fame housed there is immense, as is the poverty and the struggling. The reader of this fine work gets a taste of both. Violet, our heroine, has lost herself in her marriage and in her own mind. She has come to feel devalued in her relationship with David and worthless as a mother. She seems to wander aimlessly through her own life until one day she meets Teddy, a Hep-C infected, recovering drug addict and alcoholic (I’d toss in there a sex-addict, for good measure). Teddy is a struggling musician and, what many would consider, a lost cause. Like the rest that Violet wants to fix, she “fixes” Teddy. She does this first by getting his car repaired to the tune of over $1,000 and giving both him and his bass a ride home. For all that he is and isn’t to her, she can’t seem to stop obsessing about him. This is the beginning of her downfall and the demise of her marriage. It doesn’t take long for David, an extremely bright and well-meaning man, to discover her infidelity. On a yoga retreat, in a heat-induced mud hut sweat, he realizes the type of ass that he’s been to Violet and promises to love his wife and daughter with a full heart. While David is arriving at this realization, Violet is having crude sex with Teddy, and enjoying it at that!
All the meanwhile, the reader is entangled into the storyline of David’s sister, Sally. My distaste for her softens and transforms over the course of the book. She is desperate, lonely, and misunderstood, all the perfect ingredients for a flawed character for a reader to remember. Sally forces her life into one that she thinks she both wants and deserves… a husband and a more stable life. But her pushing her boyfriend, Jeremy, only results in their mutual unhappiness with one another. Sally’s brother, David, is as good as it gets for loving her, but she needs something more… a mark on the world that’s her own. As famous and wealthy as her brother is, she has walked in his shadow and craves her own. Little does she know that it is partially because of her that he was so success-driven in the first place.
This book is written in a brutally honest, yet beautiful manner. Semple was a writer for such shows as Mad About You and Arrested Development. She left her life in L.A. and moved to Seattle and wrote this brilliant debut novel. Besides the actual book itself, I am more than impressed with the author recommendations/reviews on the back cover. She obtains kudos from Tom Perrota (Election and Little Children), Helen Fielding (Bridget Jones’s Diary), and Darren Star (Creator of Sex and The City). I love all of their work and agree with them all on their printed praise.
A special thanks to Heather at Estella’s Revenge. First, her review of this book is really one to check out! She has a different spin on the book altogether. Second, she hosted a Hachette Books giveaway of this book and I was fortunate enough to win a copy! Again, my thanks to Heather and Hachette Book Group.
Cool Flicks
Here is a video from Maria Semple’s site that I thought you’d enjoy:
On Sher’s “Out of Ten Scale:”
The best word to describe this book is “FRESH” and boy is it as spell-binding as it is provocative. I LOVED IT! This book is not all roses and ponies, but true love, compassion, and courage win over depression, despair and loneliness. “Bravo” to Maria Semple (BTW: LOVED LOVED LOVED Mad About You) on this amazing book. There’s not a doubt in my mind that this will be put on film and I’m curious as to how they will cast Teddy! For the genre Fiction, I give this read a 10 out of 10! Maria, if you read this… PLEASE write another!























Great review. I found the characters hard to take until I heard the author and she said that’s how people in Hollywood act. It’s hard for me to comprehend people who are that shallow. I enjoyed the book too.
Great review! I’ve read so many mixed opinions about this book but I enjoyed it just like you! Although it was unconventional, I found it to be interesting and a really fast read, just like you said
I didn’t completely read everything I’ll admit because I have this book and still need to read it. I did see that you loved it and that’s good enough for me. Ha-I’m the same with the books. I read some of them but it’s like it’s dragging but then I picked up that Blossom STreet one the other day and granted it’s a favorite series but I just zipped through. Have a great day Sheri!
I read this one a couple of months ago Sheri, and like you, I also enjoyed it. It’s fun to read these reviews quite awhile after you read the book, because I forgot all about the yoga retreat scene…That was a funny part! lol
Glad you liked it!
I’ll have to find this one. Thanks for the review.
10 out of 10 – I’m definitely adding this to my wish list.
This sounds really compelling. I have just been to LA and kind of got a feel of what you/the writer describe. I gotta love a book that’s written in a “brutally honest” way! Its got to be my kind of book.
Thanks for the review. I am adding it to my list (which ought to take me until the next century to get through!)
I’ve seen a few bloggers’ reviews of this book, and I’m intrigued. Good to know how much you liked it!
This sounds like a really good book. If it pulled you in that much, I definitely should give it a try. Especially since I have yet to read a bad review of it. Thanks for a great review. You intrigued me even more than I already was.
Another great review of this book. I simply must win a copy! Thanks!
Lovely review. The book sounds haunting, yet exciting. I like reading about the processes people go through to find what they’re looking for. With this book it seems like they all want an escape of some sorts – something different from the life they have.
Am excited to read it!
Great review. Thanks for posting the other review too. Made it interesting to find out more.
Sounds wonderful – definitely adding to my TBR list! Thanks for the interview
I can understand doing everything by the book perfectly and suddenly finding yourself lost within something that wasn’t you. Maybe because it happened to me, ending my 2nd marriage. I would enjoy reading about a very diverse lifestyle from my own.
Don’t you love when you have been in a reading slump and a book comes along that re-inspires you? Sounds like a great read.
After reading this review, I really would like to read this book. I, too, seem to be in some kind of a reading slump & need something that is going to catch me & keep me interested.
Got such great reviews of course it is ony TBR list now..
Great review! I would love to read this one, it sounds fascinating!
This sounds like a great book to read. Romance, excitement and completely honest. How can you miss. Your review makes me want to buy this book right away. Or win it whichever comes first.
Very nice review! I would love to read this book.