Book Review: Snow Flower & The Secret Fan

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Author:        Lisa See

Publisher:     Random House

Website:      www.lisasee.com

ISBN:           0-8129-6806-9

Pages:         269 Paperback

Type:          Women’s Fiction

 

 

 

 

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The Review:

So, Lisa (Books On The Brain) and I were chatting about books when I saw her a couple of weeks ago.  She mentioned to me how much she liked Lisa See’s books.  I recalled her review on Peony in Love and had it in the back of my mind for a read this year.  Lisa went on to tell me that she liked Snow Flower & The Secret Fan even BETTER than Peony, although she loved Peony.  She strongly recommended the books. 

Circa to my trip to the used book store.  I did my friend Julie a favor by taking two boxes of books to the nearby used bookstore.  They sorted through them and purchased what they liked.  A $15 credit was issued.  I looked for all sorts of books that I needed for my bookclub to buy with this credit.  NO LUCK!  Nothing I needed in stock.  I cruised around aimlessly looking.  I came across a “New Books” section.  There, on the shelf at my eye-level, Snow Flower and Peony.  Of course, the credit cannot be used on new books, so I ended up purchasing both.   I didn’t care… Lisa is very never wrong when it comes to books.  Plus, when I was purchasing them, the gal who worked there told me that she loved both books, especially Snow Flower.  Well… hmmm… I’m intrigued.  BTW:  I got two Jodi Picoult books for Julie with the credit. 

So, after I finished my last book, I was excited to start a new one and although Snow Flower was the newest to the “To Be Read” pile, it was on top.  Sorry, books who had been longingly waiting for me… you’ll have to wait longer.  I started Snow Flower and Lisa was right.  I loved loved loved it.   I’m seriously thinking that January is my best reading month EVER!  I’ve read more great books this month than I can ever remember doing before.  Now, back to Snow Flower… it’s a lovely, extremely well written novel that captures your heart and you are so attached to the main characters, Snow Flower and Lily, that you simply can’t put the book down.  As so it was, I didn’t.  I devoured this book and feel that I’m going to have to show some restraint not to start Peony right away!

lilySnow Flower and The Secret Fan is an epic tale of the true bonds of friendship and family between two women, Lily and Snow Flower.  The story is told by Lily, who has survived an abnormally long life for her generation and has outlived nearly all of her relatives.  It is only in the safety of that fact that she feels she is able to share her inner truth and her secrets.  The story is one of the Chinese rural culture in the 19th century in which Lily was born in 1823 and tells her tale in approximately 1903.  Lily shares her life story in which she reveals the culture, customs, and truth about their way of life.  As a young girl, she is destined for an arranged marriage and her footbinding is a necessary preparation for such.  Lily shares her memories of her “Milk Years” which are the days of her youth before the torture of the foot binding process.  A matchmaker arrives at her home and informs her parents that snow-flowershe may have the feet, beauty and refinement required to have a special friendship called a laotong in addition to marriage to a well-positioned citizen.  These are the times of dowries and customs surrounding the match-making in marriages that all the plans are discussed at her young age of 6.  Her footbinding was to begin, along with her sisters’ at age 7. 

fanThe commitment to form the laotong relationship is also solidified.  Lily is to form this friendship with a lovely girl named Snow Flower from a village much more prosperous than hers.  She is better bred and from a wealthier family.  However, other than that difference, all other requirements for the laotong are in place.  Lily also prepares for this arranged relationship that is a sworn relationship for life that includes a contract and a fee.  The matchmaker travels with the girls to a festival for them to connect and write their contract in addition to the temple for prayer and meditation.  Lily and Snow Flower do find this connection and their life-long relationship commences.

ducksThe book takes the reader through Lily’s lifetime including the tormented days of the footbinding process (see article and photos below).  I discovered in reading this novel that one in every ten girls died from this process.  That’s just insane to me, however I understand that all cultures are different and times were much different. Women, at that time, held no value… I suppose, other than for breeding.  The reader is able to experience all of the rites of passage in these girls’ lives including their marriages and childbearing years.  Lily and Snow Flower communicate over the years via writing nu shu, a secret women’s language.  The majority of the important writing is conducted in poems on a fan that they share.  Snow Flower has penned them as a pair of Mandarin Ducks. (Aren’t they beautiful?).

nu_shuI could write and write about the intense nature of this story, the poetic form in which it was written, and the intricate storyline that it carries.  But, you will discover that for yourself when you treat yourself and pick yourself up a copy… a little love Valentine JUST FOR YOU.  It will remind you of the deep love within a woman.. for her husband, her life-long best friend, and her children.  It will reaffirm your gratefulness for the ability to live in a world in which women have rights to live the life they choose to.  It will make you glad for modern medicine and the ability we have to live a life past the age of 40! 

The other thing that I found highly respectable about Lisa See is that she went to the villages in China and actually spoke to the families and the women about this time in history.  She saw and heard this information first hand and relayed it to the readers in utter perfection.  I personally thank her for doing that as I find the book reflects such historical accuracy in addition to the haunting tale. 

Here is an article (with photos) about the footbinding that occurred in China.  You will be shocked. 

Footbinding: From Status Symbol to Subjugation

Wealthy Chinese women with bound feet pose for a photo, circa 1900-1920.

 

chinka4Legend has it that the origins of footbinding go back as far as the Shang dynasty (1700-1027 B.C.).  The Shang Empress had a clubfoot, so she demanded that footbinding be made compulsory in the court.

But historical records from the Song dynasty (960-1279 A.D.) date footbinding as beginning during the reign of Li Yu, who ruled over one region of China between 961-975. It is said his heart was captured by a concubine, Yao Niang, a talented dancer who bound her feet to suggest the shape of a new moon and performed a “lotus dance.”

During subsequent dynasties, footbinding became more popular and spread from court circles to the wealthy. Eventually, it moved from the cities to the countryside, where young girls realized that binding their feet could be their passport to social mobility and increased wealth.

When the Manchu nobility came to power in 1644, they tried to ban the practice, but with little success. The first anti-footbinding committee was formed in Shanghai by a British priest in 1874.

chinka5But the practice wasn’t outlawed until 1912, when the Qing dynasty had already been toppled by a revolution. Beginning in 1915, government inspectors could levy fines on those who continued to bind their feet. But despite these measures, footbinding still continued in various parts of the country.

A year after the Communists came to power in 1949, they too issued their own ban on footbinding. According to the American author William Rossi, who wrote The Sex Life of the Foot and Shoe, 40 percent to 50 percent of Chinese women had bound feet in the 19th century. For the upper classes, the figure was almost 100 percent.

chinka7Some estimate that as many as 2 billion Chinese women broke and bound their feet to attain this agonizing ideal of physical perfection. Author Yang Yang says that women with tiny feet were a status symbol who would bring honor upon the entire clan by their appearance.

“Some married women with bound feet would even get up in the middle of the night to start their toilette, just to ensure they would look good in daytime,” he says.

In Liuyicun, the practice persisted so long because of the village’s economic prosperity — and its inhabitants’ desire for obvious wealth signifiers, like daughters with bound feet.

Some scholars say footbinding deepened female subjugation by making women more dependent on their men folk, restricting their movements and enforcing their chastity, since women with bound feet were physically incapable of venturing far from their homes.

Certainly the “three-inch golden lotuses” were seen as the ultimate erogenous zone, with Qing dynasty pornographic books listing 48 different ways of playing with women’s bound feet.

For those unfortunate women who paid the ultimate price for beauty, there was little choice involved.

Liuyicun resident Wang Lifen, 79, describes her own attitude as a child, saying, “I didn’t want to bind my feet, but the whole village told me that I had to. So I did.”

And 86-year-old Zhou Guizhen says, “At that time everybody had bound feet. If you didn’t, you’d only be able to marry a tribesman from an ethnic minority.”

These women disfigured their feet to guarantee their own future, but according to Yang Yang, this act ultimately consigned them to tragic lives. Most of Liuyicun’s bound-feet women were forced to perform hard physical labor in the late 1950s, digging reservoirs, for example — work which was punishing enough for ordinary women, but agonizing for those with tiny, misshapen feet.

Their families also suffered food shortages as they were often unable to fulfill their production quotas at work, or walk into the mountains to pick vegetables and fruit like other mothers.

“Their tiny feet sealed their tragic fates,” Yang says. 

 

 

 

You Can Meet Lisa See…

I found on her website that she has some book signings coming up that are actually do-able for me living here in California.  If you are nearby any of these locations and a fan… you’ll be in for a treat…. Lisa, want to go to Buena Park?

 

January 29

9:15 a.m. to 12 p.m.

Talk, and signing
Shadelands Art Center

111 N. Wiget Lane
Walnut Creek, CA 
Pre-register online

Event details & information contact Margaret Garms at megarms94618@yahoo.com

February 8, 2009

11:30 a.m.
Lunch, talk, and signing
Fundraiser for the Fullerton Public Library

Los Coyotes Country Club
8888 Los Coyotes Dr.
Buena Park, CA. 
For information: 714- 738-3366

February 28

11:30 to 2:00
Meet the Authors Luncheon
Pacific Golf and Country Club

200 La Plata
San Clemente, CA
For information call Sue Peltz at 949-361-5789
or Rachael Mitchell at 949-492-1913

March 14, 2009

10:00 a.m. -1p.m.
American Association of University Women
Alhambra-San Gabriel Branch Presents
Literary Brunch and Book Signing

Featuring Lisa See
Church of the Good Shepherd, United Methodist Church
Jordan Hall, 400 W. Duarte Rd.
Arcadia, CA
For information: 626-570-9784

March 21, 2009

9:30 a.m. – 12:30 p.m
Fundraiser Brunch
Delta Nu Chapter of the
Delta Kappa Gamma Society International Presents
Literary Brunch and Book Signing

Covina Woman’s Club
128 S. San Jose
Covina, CA
For information and tickets call:
Diane at (626) 335-5926 or
Jackie at (626) 334-9892

April 25-25

L.A. Times Book Festival
UCLA campus
Westwood, CA 

 

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On Sher’s “Out of 10 Scale:”

In rating this book in the genre: Women’s Fiction/Historical Fiction, I would rate this book an 10 out of 10!  This book was remarkable to me in every way.  I only hope that it is eventually made into a movie, because it would make an amazing one.  Like I said above, take my advice… treat yourself to a copy of this book if you haven’t already read it. Peony, in some ways, is a sequel(just found out… not a sequel like I assumed) so, you might as well grab them both.  Lisa is coming out with a new book in May 2009 published by Random House, Shanghai Girls.  I’m very much looking forward to it!

Okay, Lisa… we’re off to meet Lisa See!  I’m hooked!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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  1. Lisamm

    January 27th, 2009 at 6:47 am

    Hi Sheri.. yeah, I knew you’d love this book! Great review. Peony is not a sequel, by the way, but is lovely all by itself (quite different, though!) Can’t wait to read Shanghai Girls!!

    Lisa See not only visited China, but she is half Chinese and spent much of her childhood in CHinatown in LA, where her grandparents still run a business.

    You do realize that the BP event is on Book Club Day!! Maybe we can do both.

    Wanted to mention- this was the first book we read together as a book club, and we still refer back to it on occasion, so I’m really glad you read it! The footbinding scene was so brutal and intense that a couple of our book clubbers ALMOST put the book down and didn’t finish reading it. Sara (you will meet her) really felt she couldn’t do it and I had to get on her case about it and tell her IT’S ONLY 6 PAGES, DON’T BE A BABY! It seems like more than 6 pages though! We showed pics of xrays of a bound foot at the meeting. That is something to see (google it!)

    Lisamm’s last blog post..Review: The School of Essential Ingredients by Erica Bauermeister

  2. Heather

    January 27th, 2009 at 7:52 am

    I REALLY enjoyed this book, although the foot binding scenes were pretty hard to get through. I’m glad you liked it too! I read Peony recently too, I have a review up that I posted 2-3 months ago if you’d like to check it out. :)

    Heather’s last blog post..Review: Night

  3. Nely

    January 27th, 2009 at 8:20 am

    Wasn’t this book just fantastic. I gobbled it up early last year. There was so much beauty in the writing and it was so descriptive. I instantly googled what foot binding was and found the same pics you did and was just astounded, amazed, left with my mouth open. What a beautiful tale of friendship.

    I haven’t had the opportunity to read Peony in Love but have it on my TBR list. Can’t wait to read your review on that. BTW, I always thought Peony was the book of Lily’s grandaughter (at the end of the book she mentions her name is Peony) but it isn’t. They are set a couple of hundred years apart. :)


    Nely

    Nely’s last blog post..Ms. Hempel Chronicles by Sarah Shun-lien Bynum

  4. Darlene

    January 27th, 2009 at 8:25 am

    What a terrific post Sheri! Great review and the information you’ve provided is so interesting. I have such a hard time with the foot binding-I can’t even imagine how painful that would have been and I wouldn’t want to. I have both of Lisa See’s books on my shelf and I’m going to make a point of getting to them sooner rather than later after this glowing review. I just finished a novel that had a lot of Chinese culture woven in and I have to admit I’m hungry for more.

    Darlene’s last blog post..Guest Post with Lloyd Lofthouse and Giveaway

  5. Jo-Jo

    January 27th, 2009 at 9:25 am

    Thanks for checking out my blog Sheri, and referring me to your post today! This is a great review and our book club read Snow Flower a couple of years ago and we all loved it. I just finished Peony in Love last weekend and although I really enjoyed this one also, I know quite a few of my book club members are not enjoying it as much. I will be posting my review within the next couple of days but Lisa See really shares the Chinese cultures and beliefs on a different level. I hope you enjoy it!

    Jo-Jo’s last blog post..Teaser Tuesday-Jan. 27

  6. krissy

    January 27th, 2009 at 10:14 am

    I am going to look for this one! I read Wild Swans, and just loved the stories and hiistory lessons. It also taught me not to take our political safety and comfort for granted, because minds/rules/power can change so dramatically so quickly!

    Thanks for visiting my site. I am going to try to get pictures, but have recently had a snaffu with my internet, and nothing is easy any more.

    krissy’s last blog post..Sing it, baby

  7. Menagerie

    January 27th, 2009 at 10:55 am

    Oh… so embarassed that it’s not a sequel.. I just assumed.

    Also, I did know that she was 1/2 Chinese and had the Chinatown background but failed to mention it. Lisa is just such a nice author! I’ve had a bit of chatting with her via email and what a special person!

    Anyway… on the footbinding… I know that it’s hard to imagine and hard to think about… but, it’s history. I can’t imagine not reading on or liking this book because Lisa has the bravery to share it. But, that’s just me. I’d rather know the truth and process it in due time.

    I cannot recommend this book enough!

  8. Wrighty

    January 27th, 2009 at 11:30 am

    This was such a great review and you provided amazing photos! I’ve been looking forward to reading this book and haven’t been able to get to it yet (like so many others). I don’t usually choose historical fiction for casual reading but I have found some great ones through clubs and ARCs. This last year was especially good for WWII novels that I came across. Last year I was in a club online at B&N for Peony in Love. Lisa See joined us for the entire month. It was a small group but it was one of the best clubs I’ve ever been in. She taught us so much and helped us through the details of that book. That made such a difference for me because the ancient Chinese history was sometimes difficult to comprehend. It was a touching story and the writing was beautiful. I had heard of foot binding but knew very little about it and misunderstood what was done. I thought it was somehow reduced in size but kept a fairly normal form. That’s not true at all. The foot is severely deformed because at a very young age all of the toes are folded under, bones are broken, and it’s bond very tightly to keep that form. It is considered an honor and performed with ceremony. They are bathed often and lotion is put on, dead skin and even bone is scraped away and they are rewrapped. This is done for years and disables them for life. Seeing the photos made me understand exactly how it was done. I thought it was horrific! I can’t imagine it.

    We had great conversations with Lisa and she explained everything. She has so much knowledge. I didn’t agree with parts of it but I respected it and where it came from. We had some discussions about her next book too. She said it was also helpful for her and gave her new ideas. Lisa said she was going to mention us in the acknowledgments of the new book! I don’t know if that is really going to happen but how cool is that?? It was so awesome for her to even say it! Rather it happens or not I will always feel connected to her books because of the time she spent with us. I consider authors celebrities and am always flabbergasted by any contact with them.

    Thaks for such an interesting post Sheri!

    Wrighty’s last blog post..Amazing "Cookbooks"

  9. Alyce

    January 27th, 2009 at 11:31 am

    Thanks for the great review and informative article! I have read several novels in the past that included foot binding but had always wondered what it looked like. It is horrifying!

    Alyce’s last blog post..What’s On Your Nightstand? – January

  10. angie

    January 27th, 2009 at 12:04 pm

    Thanks for this author/novel recommendation. I’m going to go reserve the book now.

  11. Bobbie Crawford-McCoy

    January 27th, 2009 at 2:13 pm

    Wow, what a wonderful review! Now I want to read ALL of the books you’ve mentioned!
    Thank you so much for bringing this author and these books to my attention!

    -Bobbie

    Bobbie Crawford-McCoy’s last blog post..Book Giveaway of ‘Bound South’

  12. Amanda

    January 27th, 2009 at 6:07 pm

    Thanks for this review Sheri. I have read similiar historical fiction books covering the time of foot binding. How painfully aweful it must have been!

    I will look for this book, as i love historical fiction.

    Amanda’s last blog post..Mums the word!

  13. Ladytink_534

    January 28th, 2009 at 6:04 am

    I vaguely remember it but I know I read this. Oh gross! Those poor, poor women :(

    I have an award for you here.

    Ladytink_534’s last blog post..Fighting for Liberty

  14. Lisa

    January 28th, 2009 at 6:09 am

    I haven’t read Peony, but I LOVED Snow Flower ! In fact, Lisa is the person who recommended the book to me too!! It was this time last year and I had just started my blog. I was so glad I listened to her!! You did a great review on this book, Sheri! You are a hoot!

    Lisa’s last blog post..Teaser Tuesday: 1.27.9

  15. Anna

    January 28th, 2009 at 7:23 am

    Great review! Thanks for including the info on foot binding. I read a novel about that several years ago, The Binding Chair, I think it was called. Lisa See’s books have been on my to-read list for ages, and I think I might pick these up in the near future.

    Anna’s last blog post..Another Award to Brighten a Snowy Day

  16. Shana @ Literarily

    January 28th, 2009 at 11:44 am

    Fantastic review. I’ve been wanting to read this one for a while now. I love a great epic novel with characters I can really get attached to. Those photos of the feet are completely creepy.

    Shana @ Literarily’s last blog post..Monday’s Movie: Valkyrie

  17. Bonnie

    January 28th, 2009 at 6:08 pm

    Great Review! I LOVED this book. I read it with my book club a few years ago and it is one of my favorite all time books. It is such a strong story of women’s friendships and mother/daughter relationships. I had no idea that Lisa See’s newest book will be out this year, thanks for the heads up! I’ll be looking for it. I had to research the foot binding after I read the book also and to see the pictures just brings the reality to life. It’s unbelievable that men would find feet like that beautiful!!

  18. Kathy

    January 30th, 2009 at 9:52 am

    What a great review. Thanks for all the pictures too. I’d never seen a picture of a foot that had been bound and I can see I hope to never see one again.

    Kathy’s last blog post..Review: The School of Essential Ingredients

  19. Vicki

    February 2nd, 2009 at 3:36 pm

    That seems like a fascinating book. I can’t imagine the thinking behind foot binding, but many cultures do insane things to women and their body parts…

    Thanks for sharing this with BPOTW!

    Vicki’s last blog post..Growing and shrinking

  20. Vanessa

    February 3rd, 2009 at 1:18 am

    I just read this book as well. When she started describing the foot-binding process however, I became concerned that I wouldn’t be able to finish the book since it made me physically ill. I actually had to put the book down and took quite a lot of courage several days later to pick it back up. But I absolutely agree about the 10 out of 10. It was well written, excellent characterization and a heart-warming story. I was especially interested in it since I am living in S. Korea who are still a Confucian society, although they never practiced foot-binding.

    Vanessa’s last blog post..Seolnal week

  21. drey

    February 4th, 2009 at 11:53 am

    I LOVED Lisa See’s Snow Flower and the Secret Fan, and Peony in Love. Some readers might not like the latter, because it delves into the supernatural and superstitions. I can’t wait for Shanghai Girls!

    Loved the additional information you posted as well. Foot-binding was such a painful tradition, I cannot believe they actually did it. And reading about the process made me sick, and so very sad. =(

    drey’s last blog post..33. Pretties by Scott Westerfeld…

  22. Moosekahl

    March 3rd, 2009 at 3:15 pm

    This is on the list of two purchase…several of my reader friends have told me I need to just go get it and soon :)

  23. Serena (Savvy Verse & Wit)

    March 4th, 2009 at 5:42 am

    I love this review…and the information on foot binding was fascinating…though maybe that is not the right word to use. You make me want to read See’s works.

  24. Shala Paschke

    February 10th, 2010 at 8:44 pm

    Great piece of writing! This could assist a lot of people find out more about this matter. Do you want to include video clips coupled with these? It would undoubtedly help. Your description was spot on and thanks to you; I probably won’t have to describe everything to my buddies. I can simply direct them in this article!


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